Jun
26
    
Posted (admin) in Dating Resources on June-26-2009

I’d like to talk to you about the methods you can use to stay safe during online dating. It is unfortunate but many people will take advantage of the anonymity of the internet to scam you at every possible turn. Dating online is particularly open to such scams since scammers are often the best charmers.

There are many ways to fight these scammers though. The first is to just stay aware of your discussions. Does it ever feel like they’re really interested in pumping you for boring information? If so then they may be priming up for the big finale scam. Another thing to look out for is if they have a seductive username or profile picture. Scammers know their targets. They will use every weakness at their disposal to try and knock your guard down. Using a sexy name or picture can get them the traffic they need and the little ounce of trust they need.

As you can see the best ways to fight scams in online dating is to use your common sense. They expect their targets to be people who’re tired of the dating world and just want to find someone. They’ll happily cater to your wants just to make the big financial score at the end. If you don’t want your identity to be stolen you will have to keep your wits about you when dating online. ;)



 
Mar
09
    
Posted (admin) in Humor, True Stories on March-9-2009

It may be surprising but one of the best ways to meet people through online dating is actually through relatively normal game. Many social networks now offer ways for you to play checkers, chess, backgammon, poker, or just about any other mainstream game with someone you met on the network. The beauty of it is that you’ll have something to talk about and conversation in the chat box should flow naturally.

This is really key to online dating. You will have to be able to hold up a conversation just like you would in real life. Having something to talk about makes it that much easier. Game chats also always tend to be low key events so it is a great way to get to know a casual friend better. You could even make it a little scheduled event to start having basic dates.

It is also a great strategy because it will cut down on the spammers and scammers trying to infiltrate the network. Few scammers are dedicated enough to play a full game in the vain hope of getting a few personal details. There are many more ways available that are much easier for them. Sticking to game chats will keep you shield from the darker corners of the internet. :D



 
Nov
15
    
Posted (admin) in Uncategorized on November-15-2008

The relations between the both of a couple can be nice and easy. So to speak, a kind of unclouded happiness. On the other side, it can turn out to be a real and serious problem to find a matching person. First of all, one should ask himself a question, if he is ready to spend the whole life with the second of a couple. And there should be no hurry in looking for a future spouse. After the wedding ceremony a new life is going to be started. A life with many obstacles and barriers. And sometimes not all of them can be overcome.

This new happy, or more precisely, unhappy life ends with a divorce. Often unexpected, especially for outsiders. And then the question comes up – what to do? If you need a support, you may join divorce support groups. And if you want to discuss your or your friend’s problems there, join the divorce forums. There you may discuss any question you like about divorces and everything connected with them. And no matter, whether you are divorced or not yet. The forums may help to save your marriage and answer different questions, for example how to overcome infidelity. There is a lot of information there. :)

So think twice/thrice before taking an important decision for your life. ;)



 
Nov
05
    
Posted (admin) in Dating tips, For Men on November-5-2008

The most important aspect in finding your soul mate is to be experienced with the dating process. You won’t be able to convince her of your interest if you don’t take the energy to make your relationship work. This all starts with the first few dates and the feelings you have to project during them.

The first and foremost is that you will provide a good sense of security. This means that you are secure in yourself while providing her with an emotional anchor point. You wouldn’t date someone who wasn’t supportive, why would she? If you want to win her heart you will have to make her feel emotionally secure.

The next thing is to try and add a little passion to your relationship. Women usually want a lot of security but no one wants things to get boring. You also need to occasionally be a true romantic who can sweep her off her feet. If you’re creative in your dates this should be more than enough to show her your care.

The last way is obvious. Show that you’re interested. You shouldn’t be bored during a date. If you are then things won’t work out. You will need to be a good listener and an active conversationalist if you really want to win her over. It’s the best way to show that you’re interested and that you really like her as a person.

Don’t forget to give her gifts every time you meet. Don’t give gifts which you like, give those which she like. Giving one or two tungsten rings would be a good start as women loves those tungsten rings a lot. Similarly, you can take jewelry, chocolates, flowers etc. – different item at each date. ;)

These are basic tips but they should set you on the first steps to winning the heart of your true love.:)



 
Jun
30
    
Posted (admin) in Dating tips on June-30-2008

Online dating is becoming popular because of the ease you can search your best partner. You can search for your partner based on location, appearance, religion, personality, career, dreams, beliefs, goals, etc. And all this can be performed very quickly these days.

There are lot of successful stories on online dating and happy marriage life later on. Though it is not an easy task to find a single on online, but if you take some proper steps, you can also find your true life partner via online dating sites.

Some of the points to remember while searching for online singles are :

True identity – Many people create accounts with fake profiles or fake data. Rather submit details which are true to yourself. Fake data is just a waste of money and time. Remember, a true lover is going to trust you only with your profile. So better be realistic from start.

Don’t get fooled – be aware of fake profiles as I said earlier. Though few sites perform authenticity, background and criminal records check, but you should also do an active research for the correct details.

During first few visits, date/gather at public places so that you might not get scammed or placed in a critical situation. Once the person appears genuine, then you can go ahead with private meets

Choose only those sites that are raliable and have good customer testimonials e.g. date.com etc. Though such premium sites might cost you few dollars, but that is meagre when it comes to finding a true love.

So approach carefully while searching for online singles :)



 
Jun
15
    
Posted (admin) in Dating Disasters on June-15-2008

Dating is supposed to be a personal experience determined by your own likes and desires. Your friends are good people and they usually have your best interests at heart, but the road to hell is always paved with good intentions. This means that you need to take any dating advice you receive from your friends with a grain of salt. You are the one who needs to be happy. They will never know your true wants better than you.

This is particularly important when it comes to the actual dating. If you meet someone you shouldn’t run out and tell your friends all about it at first. At best they will express limited support and curiosity for your new venture into the dating realm. At worst they will convince you that you’re dating the spawn of Satan instead of the angel you see them as.

Ideally you should just keep any conversations about your dating habits to a minimum. You can mention a few things but it is generally best if you let your own thoughts settle on your feelings towards your date. There is a little thing known as confirmation bias. This means that if your friends point out all of your date’s flaws then all you will see on your next date is those flaws.

Far too many relationships are ruined because people choose to listen to their friend’s advice. They may just want to help but they can inadvertently do far more harm than good in your dating life. ;)