Feb
24
    
Posted (admin) in Dating tips, For Men on February-24-2008

If you want your dating experiences to go well, then you will have to follow a set of basic rules that will prevent you from falling into the traps that most men fall into. If you really want to convince a girl that you like her then you’ll have to put a little bit of control into your actions.

The first thing you have to do is be careful about what you do to get her attention. Women don’t like men who act like idiots desperate for attention. They want a future husband not a little kid they have to watch. You should try and have a respectful adult relationship with her based around mutual interests. If you are doing stupid or crazy things to get her attention then you’re doing it wrong.

The next thing is that you can’t be a mindless follower either. Be a considerate date is not the same thing as being their servant. You should obviously try and help her out but you don’t want to be a weak man who will do anything she wants. This just isn’t healthy and it won’t lead to a respectful relationship.

Finally, you can’t focus on your flaws. We all have things that we can’t do well. We’ll spend most of our lives downplaying these flaws. Dating won’t be any different. If you want to get your date to like you then you shouldn’t do things that display your failures and minimize your successes. It will just create an image of a loser in her mind and hurt your chances at further dates.

Dating is very difficult to do right. It is a crazy balancing act that many of us will fail at, but you have to keep trying if you want to eventually find someone special. ;)



 
Feb
15
    
Posted (admin) in Dating tips, For Men on February-15-2008

The truth is that just about everyone probably has that special someone who just makes their heart flutter. This is occasionally little more than a schoolboy crush but it can be your heart trying to clue you in about what you really want. If you want to get her to agree to go on a date with you, then you will need a few tips.

The real question is just what you can do to win her over. This may sound cliched, but it is true. You can’t be too nervous around her if you ever want a date. Women will like a guy with a funny and interesting personality. You will be neither if you are ridiculously nervous anytime you see her.

The only thing left is to go ahead and talk to her. Before you try you should take a few breaths and psych yourself up. Like I said, confidence is everything in dating. You should have a few topics in mind before you walk up too. You’ll just look stupid if you stand their tongue-tied. Chances are that you’ll already know a few of her basic interests so think up something that you could talk about. If you really like her it shouldn’t be that hard.

These may be simple tips and I would never say that dating is simple, but they’re at least a good place to start. :)